I find the New Testament teachings about sex to be somewhat negative. Jesus said that lust in the heart was the equivalent of adultery in actuality. What about pleasant sexual fantasies? God seems to have wired our brains to enjoy erotic reveries whenever we want. Those who fantasize at times or while enjoying sex often report better erotic highs and stronger orgasms. Some say they need to fantasize to help them achieve better sex ("My Secret Garden")
Personally, I think whatever is helpful and acceptable to both partners is fine with the Creator. "Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom."
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